An unhealthy state of mind compromises sexual health and gratification. While an abusive relationship, divorce or separation from loved ones are common causes of sexual issues, the specific root causes of sexual problems vary for each individual. The psychological causes of sexual dysfunction can range from work-related stress to mental health issues such as anxiety, depression, anger or personality disorders. Unless medically diagnosed otherwise, most sexual problems have a psychological basis and are due to the harmful conditioning.
Distress associated with sexual problems reaches far beyond the bedroom; negatively impacting the mind and often causing the development of further psychological problems.
Sexual Issues Include:
- Anorgasmia
- Gender issues
- Erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation
- Fetishism
- Sex related addictions
- Loss of libido
Healing Sexual Issues
Some people’s lives are on the verge of collapse due to the emotional turmoil caused by suffering with sexual dysfunction. If no medical abnormalities have been detected, then the mind is the cause of the sexual problems, and healing the mind is the only solution. In some cases, people spend many years unsuccessfully trying to treat sexual issues with sex therapy. The problem with most sex therapies is the focus on the physical, rather than transforming the root causes in the mind. Afterall, it is the mind that controls the body via the brain. Some couples and individuals try various sexually stimulating videos, which may only exacerbate the problem as it can cause the development of fetishism disorder, emotional intimacy issues, porn addiction and many other problems. If you are one of many who have been trapped in therapy for years without a success, then it is an indication that you are applying the wrong approach to heal from your condition.
Case Study: Sexual Problems and Erectile Disfunction Cure
Talia had been attracting men with an erectile disfunction or premature ejaculation for all of her adult life. Due to these repeated, painful experiences she developed sexual intimacy blockages, severe depression, loss of libido and anorgasmia. She had tried years of psychoanalytic psychotherapy, sex therapy, hypnotherapy and healings but nothing worked.
With S.C. Holistic Therapy we healed the root cause of her sexual problems. These were rooted in her experience of psychological and physical abuse when she was a child. These traumas were the reason she had been unconsciously choosing her sexually disabled partners. Unconsciously threatened by powerful, masculine, sexually healthy men, she resisted her own healing for many years. In our sessions she repaired her mental and sexual health and brought her partner, Anthony, to achieve the same end.
Anthony too had suffered immensely when he was a child; his mother was very aggressive and psychologically and emotionally abusive. It was only when his fear of feminine closeness was healed that he was able to allow emotional intimacy and masculine vulnerability.
As Talia and Anthony’s minds healed from past traumas, so did their emotional and physical intimacy issues. As they had let go of their harmful pasts, they found inner peace, happiness, heart connection and consequently sexual fulfilment.
Since they did not suffer from physical ailments, the only way forward was to heal the mind from causing sexual problems in the body. Their sexual issues were subconscious mechanisms of protection from emotional and physical vulnerability. Once the mind becomes clear of harmful beliefs, the body returns to a naturally healthy and functioning state.
All events trigger an experience or an emotion according to our perception of the event. Our thinking processes, beliefs and perception are habitual and learned through life experiences, governed by environmental influences and genetic encoding. Through memory and habit we become bundles of conditioned responses and nerves, constantly being triggered by people and circumstances into predictable outcomes of biochemical response in our bodies.